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Unmasking the Lies We Tell Ourselves: Albert Ellis's 10 Irrational Beliefs

Writer: David WollageDavid Wollage

Irrational beliefs are illogical and unrealistic thoughts or ideas that people hold despite evidence to the contrary. These beliefs are often deeply ingrained and can lead to negative emotions, maladaptive behaviours, and psychological distress.




The renowned psychologist Albert Ellis identified 10 common irrational beliefs that many people share. These beliefs are:


1. The idea that it is a dire necessity for adults to be loved by significant others for almost everything they do.

2. The idea that certain acts are awful or wicked and that people who perform such acts should be severely punished.

3. The idea that it is horrible when things are not the way we would like them to be.

4. The idea that human unhappiness is externally caused and that people have little or no ability to control their sorrows and disturbances.

5. The idea that if something is or may be dangerous or fearsome, one should be terribly upset by it.

6. The idea that it is easier to avoid than to face certain life difficulties and self-responsibilities.

7. The idea that one should be thoroughly competent, adequate, and achieving in all possible respects.

8. The idea that because something once strongly affected one's life, it should indefinitely affect it.

9. The idea that human happiness can be achieved by inertia and inaction.

10. The idea that we have virtually no control over our emotions and that we cannot help feeling disturbed about things.


Why Do So Many People Share These Irrational Beliefs?

There are several reasons why these irrational beliefs are so common:


  • They are often learned and reinforced from an early age through societal norms, family dynamics, and personal experiences.

  • They provide a sense of control and certainty in an uncertain world, even if that control is illusory.

  • They can serve as defence mechanisms, protecting individuals from facing uncomfortable truths or taking responsibility for their actions.

  • They are self-perpetuating, as people tend to seek out information that confirms their existing beliefs (confirmation bias).


What Does It Mean That So Many People Share These Common Irrational Beliefs?

The widespread prevalence of these irrational beliefs highlights the human tendency to engage in distorted thinking patterns. It suggests that many people struggle with cognitive distortions and maladaptive thought processes that can negatively impact their mental health and well-being.


Is This Information Empirically Validated?

Yes, the concept of irrational beliefs and their impact on psychological well-being has been extensively studied and empirically validated. Ellis's Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), which focuses on identifying and challenging irrational beliefs, has been found to be an effective treatment for various mental health issues, including anxiety, depression, and stress-related disorders.


Wrap Up

By understanding and addressing these common irrational beliefs, safety and coaching professionals can better assist individuals in developing more rational and adaptive thought patterns, ultimately promoting improved mental health and overall well-being.

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